I been married six years now with four kids.
She made an account on adult friendly finder met a guy. They talked and formed a closer relationship than I realized. I agreed for him to come over Friday evening showed him around. I let them go in our bed stupid me and have sex that night many times. He was taller more handsome than I.
The next morning I got her to get him to leave because my emotions were torn by it. She was furiously mad at me. She was trying to leave. We argued who would have what of ours. She wanted all kids I tried to have two boys with me. She wanted all the kids.
I left to a shopping center across from where we lived. I hurried up the hill past a cemetary path behind our house over to southview mall in Bluewell WV, to avoid her bother. He is ruly and tends to get his way so I wanted the kids to stay home so I took them to Krogers and that area to come back later.
Next thing her family called the police on me had me arrested. I thought it was for kidnapping. But the officer guy I found had her say I put my arms up as she covered her face in defense. Her grandma said I was beating her when it was not true. I keep my cool nearly all the time. What happened was we fought over a cell phone because my dad was long distance and I needed the phone. She was calling her family to get her way with things and I was a bit afriad. So I felt I must have the cell phone. She threw a phone at me at one point and chased me for the cell phone.
The officer was rude towards me didn’t give me my Miranda rights. He took me to jail and said you know you are under arrest. Can he take me without saying why? Or with out asking my side of what happened?
Her family never was fond of me and they made trouble soon as they had a chance. She didn’t tell them to call she told me.
I went to jail.
She bailed me out the next afternoon. I thought we was cool going to work at our marriage. I begged her for us to do better. She fell in love with the guy I let her have sex with and seem not to want me or us to be a family any longer. She says I didn’t threat her good any longer. But I seen her grow away as that guy was better and romanced her much better.
Monday I urged her to bring our kids back from grandmas. She refused. She took Mark to grandmas saying she needed time to think. I told her she needed to decide if she is done with the other guy and she didn’t want to do it.
I was getting threats from her family I was avoiding. A guy on the phone said he was coming for me boy? A suspicious guy in a green SUV came by the home seemingly looking for me. He came twice last time got out with his arms bent and noticed me at edge of cemetary before I decided to run to south view mall for security. 911 told me to go back that police can’t help unless something happens to me. I called my father. I got him to come for me.
I called her several times and she ignored me. I got hold of her and she stood by her decision of us leaving eachother. I told her she had one more chance to change this and be a family.
I told her I would fight for custody. She than stated that the boys said I touched them there only 4 and 5. I wonder if this is going to be used. I told her this isn’t true and she should know how they would tell us if they touched eachother because a short while back I caught Matthew and Michael exploreing each other and I told my wife about it. So I believe that is why they say things like that. Her family probably asked so they would say that but its not true.
Mark when at the hospital had a burn from being at her grandmas. Seemed emotionally desturb from us parents. I was really worried. He cried alot at night. He is only 1 1/2.
When my dad came she went to court without me knowing filed a protective order saying I hit her and verbal abuse her which is not true. We have had some arguements and our moments but never to much out of control. She has thrown some things at me and lost her temper a few times her self. I didn’t ever try to harm her physically.
I thought they may arrest me.
This week I been at my dads we are clueless about what may happen. I am trying to figure the best interest of kids. Do they go with mother. Should I take all four under my wings if possible. Should she be asked to save our marriage she states I make her stay and not leave. But she gets to leave I just urged her not to. She says I get to many chances. I usually take blame at fault or not.
The protective order was crazy because I didn’t show violence towards her or kids.
Now next week we go to family court for custody hearing. I plan to get a public appointed official. What should I do. The kids mean alot to both of us. I wanted to remain family although I am not the man she favors. I want to be in their lives much as possible. My family was astoned when I told them about what has happened.
She doesn’t have a j
This is what happens when you don’t keep your bitches in line. You sound like a weakling.
Bosted Frutts | Nov 26, 2009
Wow…you are very open minded to let your ol-lady screw another guy in your bed and you get nothing.
Now you got nothing.
Get a lawyer. If you cant afford on they will have one appointed to you at no cost and postpone the hearing until you have a chance to talk to a lawyer.
Dont say nothing until you get a lawyer!
Rayzorx2002 | Nov 26, 2009
always helps!
